One thing that you’re likely to learn during your time with me is this: a skilled mindfucktress can make things quite perilous for your self-control.
Though that’s just what you want. Or…is it?
Sometimes, I’ll meet fellows who say they want to be controlled…and who then quickly shy away once they [...]
Entries Tagged as 'intelligent phone sex'
Is mindfucking your only choice…or your best one?
April 28th, 2009 · No Comments · Expert phone sex, Mindfuckable traits, Mindfucking, Surprise, cock control, erotic compulsion, exposure, giving up control, intelligent phone sex, mindfucktress, sweet and nasty, temptation
Many of my mindfucked guys tell me that they never expected our cockteasing relationship to develop the way that it has. I often find this funny, though it may be true that US culture has encouraged many of us to assume that all risks will come with a clear warning label!
Then again, if my fellows [...]
Jumping right into your sensual conflictedness to create a hot phone-sex mindfuck
February 22nd, 2009 · No Comments · Expert phone sex, Humiliation phone sex, Mindfucking, Surprise, cock control, erotic compulsion, erotic listening, exposure, intelligent phone sex, mindfucktress, sweet and nasty, temptation, win-win
I’ve talked before about how really substantive mindfucking with me is a process of getting to know you. The more I know about you, the deeper inside your head my sweet and nasty phone sex ministrations will infiltrate. And the more difficult it will be for you to stop thinking about me afterward.
Now, that’s a [...]
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An innocent but oh-so-revealing line gives your mindfucktress another chuckle
February 14th, 2009 · No Comments · Mindfucking, Surprise, delicious doubt, giving up control, greed, intelligent phone sex, sweet and nasty
I recently talked with a prospective mindfucking candidate who asked, “How long will it take you to have your way with me?”
Of course, the query made me laugh, most especially because of how much it revealed about the fellow who asked it—his eagerness, his lack of discipline, and most especially his naivete! All of which [...]
Erotic mindfucking with me requires your ability to appreciate the journey
January 31st, 2009 · No Comments · Expert phone sex, Mindfucking, Stamina, cock control, erotic listening, giving up control, intelligent phone sex, mindfucktress, subtlety, sweet and nasty, temptation
I mentioned recently that it can be hard to tell when a mindfuck with me definitively begins. And of course it is—if there was a clear line of demarcation, I wouldn’t be showing you much subtlety, would I? And subtlety is a crucial part of what I consider to be fine mindfucking.
To introduce that concept, [...]
Does your mindfucktress take a win-win approach? Here's why I do
January 22nd, 2009 · No Comments · Mindfucking, erotic compulsion, giving up control, intelligent phone sex, sweet and nasty, temptation, win-win
I just mentioned J. in my last post, so I’ll go ahead and address another question that he’d brought up, which is just how necessary a win-win premise is to a fine mindfuck. You see, J. says he cannot imagine that mindfucking would be nearly as mutually satisfying without that underlying focus!
And again, I agree [...]
More on win-win…and your escapism doesn't make our phone sex less erotic
January 21st, 2009 · No Comments · Mindfucking, intelligent phone sex, mindfucktress, sweet and nasty, temptation, win-win
J. wrote me recently to say that he is fascinated by my win-win approach to mindfucking. He described me as “a real artist…who wants to make each creation better than the last”. And he’s quite laudably correct. As others of you have mentioned to me before, I am an utter perfectionist when it comes to [...]